Examples of triggers: (a work in progress)common plot points that could be triggering for abuse/assault/trama survivors. These things probably merit a warning, with case-specific exceptions:
- Rape
- Non-con
- Dubcon (sex for which consent is dubious to the reader)
- Sexual assault
- Incest*
- Suicide
- Murder/Violent Death
- Domestic abuse
- Child abuse/molestation
- Character death
- Torture/Starvation
- Captivity/Kidnapping/Prisoner situations
- Violence above the norm for your fandom's canon**
*romanticized consensual adult incest may be covered just by your pairing label, but a warning might not hurt if you're writing a crossover. This is a subjective situation.
**obviously subjective
Please note: Every piece of fiction is different, so the writer looking here for guidance should know that there is room for judgment calls on the above points. The passing mention that Ensign Ricky bought it on Planet of the Symbolic Monster is different than a fic about the death of Captain Kirk. A reader in the
Bones or
CSI fandoms expects murder as a potential central topic. A reader in the
How I Met Your Mother fandom does not. Nobody would ask for a vampire warning on a
Buffy fic.
common plot points that could be triggering for those recovering from exactly what the term implies. Whether a writer chooses to warn or label is subjective:
- Self-harm
- Eating disorders
- Alcoholism or alcohol use
- Addiction or drug use
These kinds of triggers involve fictional content weakens the individual's resolve to refrain from the harmful behaviors. It is an act of kindness to help people avoid that kind of content.
Labeling for these things is not always necessary. If you mention a character having a beer, the likelihood of triggering anyone is statistically zero, and not to be dismissive of the alcoholic, but if they'd be triggered by the phrase "let's have a beer," then first seeing "warning for alcohol use" wouldn't be much better.
If, on the other hand, a character lovingly describes his beer for several paragraphs, because you want to convey just how much he needs this beer for whatever reason, you might make someone want a beer. Sometimes that might be a problem.
You know the way Chandler Bing talks about cigarettes in certain episodes of
Friends? Imagine seeing that three days into your second attempt to quit smoking. (I'm not advocating warning for smoking, that is just an example that I think a large number of people can relate to.)
Other types of writing that could be triggering. Again, these ones are more subjective when it comes to labeling:
- potentially triggering power dynamics (sexual or otherwise)
- writing that does a particularly good job of conveying a sense of helplessness
- a tone of writing that indicates something awful is coming
Labeling for things like this is difficult. Perfection isn't possible, but if you are not adverse to labeling, you could indicate these things in a reader-optional warning, not so much to warn away people with triggers, but rather to offer a little reassurance. It's good salesmanship. And it's polite.
potential triggers that have no business in a Warning Tag. These are the things that should be labeled in a space away from the warning tag, which has a negative connotation, because these are fun things like consensual sex:
- consensual kinks (please help build this list)
- bondage
- knifeplay
- breathplay
- D/s
- sexual power exchange
other things you might like to label even if they are not common triggers. Labeling for these in some manner is just good for those of us who google for fic, or for people who don't want to have to backbutton because they're not finding what they want:
- mpreg
- hurt/comfort
- cliche!fic
- babyfic
items currently being discussed regarding where they belong or if they belong on these lists: